FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out

FOMO, the Fear Of Missing Out, is a growing problem among young people. It affects all aspects of their lives from school to sleep.[1]https://eslbrains.com/fomo-phrasal-verbs-with-out/[2]http://learnenglishteens.britishcouncil.org/sites/teens/files/fomo_-_exercises_1.pdf

Look at this blog article to learn more about FOMO and do the exercises to improve your English reading skills.

FOMO

Preparation

The verb “miss” can mean many different things in English depending on the context. Match the different meanings for “miss” with their definition.

  1. He is not a very good basketball player. He misses every shot he takes.
  2. My dog has been missing all weekend. I have been putting fliers up everywhere hoping to find her.
  3. I missed the bus and now have to wait 30 minutes for the next one.
  4. She misses living near the beach.
  5. Can you repeat what the teacher said? I missed the main point.

a. to fail to notice, hear, or understand

b. to notice the loss or absence of

c. to fail to hit, reach, or come into contact with (something aimed at)

d. to be late for something

e. to feel sad that something or someone is not there

Reading

FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out

FOMO is the Fear Of Missing Out. It is the feeling of anxiety a person might get when they feel like they have missed out on something.

In our current society, social media is the biggest contributing factor to FOMO. You can consistently see all of the great things your friends are doing and it makes your feel bad that you aren’t doing them as well.

A growing trend is that this is even affecting people’s sleep. They are so worried about missing opportunities to like, comment, look, and take part in the online world, that they will wake up in the middle of the night to get on their phones.

This growing trend reveals some worrying statistics including:[3]https://trustpulse.com/fomo-statistics/

  • 69% of millennials experience FOMO
  • 60% of people make online purchases because of FOMO
  • 48% of millennials spend money they don’t have in order to keep up with their friends
  • 33% of people try to induce FOMO in their friends
  • 40% of people purchase something once per year just to post it on social media

Needless to say, these habits can cause a lot of problems in your daily life including an overall negative role in your overall psychological well being. In fact, a study in 2013 showed that it actually has a negative affect on people’ overall mood and life satisfaction. Social media can increase your feelings of loneliness and boredom.[4]https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0747563213000800?via%3Dihub

So, we would like to say that you should be responsible when using social media. Don’t let FOMO rule your life. Switch off your devices every now and then. Live in the moment. Don’t worry you won’t be missing anything too important online!

Multiple Choice

Choose the best option to complete the following sentences.

1. The biggest contributing factor to FOMO is…

a. TV

b. social media

c. the internet

2. Research shows that the Fear Of Missing Out can affect your…

a. mood

b. school grades

c. number of likes on social media

3. Around ______ of people will by something online due to the Fear Of Missing Out.

a. 48%

b. 69%

c. 60%

4. The Fear Of Missing Out is…

a. the fear of not having the newest technology

b. the feeling that you need to party all the time

c. the feeling that you are missing opportunities due to what you see on social media.

5. The writer says…

a. we should completely stop using social media

b. we need to temper our use of social media

c. we should use social media even more

6. Around ______ of people purchase something just to post it on social media.

a. 40%

b. 48%

c. 33%

1. b 2. a 3. c 4. c 5. b 6. a

True or False

Select true or false for each statement about this article.

  1. 40% of people don’t make online purchases due to FOMO.
  2. The Fear of Missing Out is a growing trend that doesn’t affect sleep.
  3. This phenomena can have positive affects on your self worth.
  4. The biggest factor that contributes to FOMO is social media.
  5. A 2012 study shows that FOMO can have a negative affect.
  6. 60% of millenials experience FOMO.
1. True 2. False 3. False 4. True 5. False 6. False

Discussion

Do you experience FOMO? Is is something common from where you are from?

If this is too difficult to understand, check out the B2 grammar points to help out!

Wishes and Hypotheses

In English, you can use “wish” and “if only” to talk about wishes and hypotheses.[1]https://learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/grammar/intermediate-to-upper-intermediate/wish-and-if-only

The main difference is that “if only” is a stronger expression for wishes and hypotheses.  

Wishes in the Past

You can use “wish” or “if only” with the past perfect tense to talk about what you would like to change about the past.

For example:

  • They wish they had studied more for the test.
  • If only I had closed my window before I left, then the robbers wouldn’t have been able to get into the house.
  • She wishes that she had prepared more for the driving test.

Wishes in the Present

You can use “wish” or “if only” with the past simple and past continuous to talk about what you would like to change in the present.[2]https://learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/english-grammar-reference/wishes-and-hypotheses

For example:

  • I don’t like this food. I wish I chose something different.
  • I don’t like this seat in the car. If only I were sitting in the front seat.
  • I’m dying here. If only it was not so hot here!

Wishes in the Future

You can use “wish” or “if only” with the modal verbs “would” and “could” to talk about what you would like to do in the future.

For example:

  • I don’t like my job. I wish I could quite, but if I quite then I won’t have any money!
  • If only I would have studied more, then I would have easily passed the test.
  • I wish I could stop smoking. It is a very bad habit.

Expressing Past Habits

In English, you can use both “used to” and “would” for expressing past habits to emphasize that they are not true anymore.[1]https://blog.off2class.com/habits-and-repeated-actions-past/

Because they are used to talk about habits, it is slightly different than the past simple tense or the past continuous tense.

expressing past habits

Would

You can use the word “would” to talk about repeated actions in the past. A repeated action is an action that happens at a specific moment in time in the past.

You can use “would” for:

  • Moral formal situations
  • Events that happen many times

Examples include:

  • I would practice the piano every day.
  • She would hide every time I tried to find her.
  • They would have loud parties every Friday evening.

Used to

You can use the words “used to” to talk about states in the past. A state is a condition that happens over a period of time in the past.

You can use “used to” for:

  • Questions
  • Negatives
  • Stative verbs

Examples include:

  • We used to live in Paris when I was younger.
  • He didn’t use to be shorter than me.
  • Did she use to go to school with us?

Expressing Past Habits Practice Exercises

Choose the correct the correct form between “would” and “used to” for expressing past habits.

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1. Susie ________ to live in New York City.

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2. She ________ like dancing.

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3. They ________ have a dog.

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4. When he was younger, he ________ play baseball with his friends.

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5. They ________ live in Los Angeles.

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6. My dog ________ chew on everything in the house.

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7. When I was younger, I ________ go surfing during the summer.

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8. When I was a child, I ________ often dream of becoming an actor.

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Narrative Tenses

Narrative tenses are verb tenses used to talk about things in the past.

Normally you can use them in stories, descriptions of past events, and personal anecdotes.[1]https://prezi.com/ja2fl95x7feq/narrative-tenses/

Some common narrative tenses that are used in the narrative tense are the past simple, past continuous, and past perfect.[2]https://www.test-english.com/explanation/b1/past-simple-past-continuous-past-perfect/

Present Tenses

Do not mix the present and past tense when narrating past events.

This will only confuse the reader or listener as to when an event happens.[3]https://www.slideshare.net/marolmedo/narrative-tenses-10054596

For example, avoid using the present simple, present continuous, or the present perfect.

Past Simple

For regular verbs, the past simple is formed by adding –ed to the end of a verb such as talked, walked, and played.[4]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYVfYRzdTF0

For irregular verbs, you must memorize the past simple such as for eat (ate), go (went), and buy (bought).

If you would like to learn more about the past simple tense, check out:

Past Continuous

The past continuous tense is formed in the following way.[5]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYVfYRzdTF0

Was/were + verb – ing

For example:

  • They were walking.
  • She was eating.
  • I was sleeping.

If you would like to learn more about the past continuous tense, check out:

Past Perfect

The past perfect is formed in the following way.

Had + past participle

For example:

  • I had eaten breakfast.
  • Susie had studied for the exam.
  • We had lived there for 5 years.

If you would like to learn more about the past continuous tense, check out:

Modals – Can’t Have/Needn’t Have

Modal verbs are a type of verb that allows the speaker to express things such as advice, obligation, order, suggestions, capacity, request, permission, ability, and likelihood. Two important ones are “can’t have” and “needn’t have”.[1]https://phoneenglish.es/blog/2017/04/modals-cant-have-and-neednt-have/

While they seem similar they actually express quite different things.

Can’t Have

This modal verb expresses something that you are very sure didn’t happen in the past or when you believe something was impossible in the past.

When using this modal verb, it follows the following formula:

  • Can’t have + Past Participle

For example:

  • The prisoner can’t have escaped through that window because it is too small.
  • The kid can’t have been at the movie theater. He was at home all weekend studying for the exam.
  • Susie can’t have said that. She is too nice and wouldn’t say such mean things.

Needn’t Have

“Needn’t have” expresses when an action was done but was most likely a waste of time and unnecessary.

When using this modal verb, it follows the following formula:

  • Needn’t have + Past Participle

For example:

  • You needn’t have cooked so much food. We already ate before we came here.
  • She needn’t have bought a new car. I was going to give one to her for her birthday.
  • We needn’t have studied so hard for the test. It ended up being canceled.

Relative Clauses

Relative clauses give extra information about a noun or pronoun in a sentence.[1]https://www.st-agnes.manchester.sch.uk/year-6-circles/relative-clauses/https://www.st-agnes.manchester.sch.uk/year-6-circles/relative-clauses/

They usually start with a relative pronoun.

Who

“Who” is a relative clause used as the subject or object pronoun for people.[2]https://englishstudyhere.com/grammar/relative-clauses-detailed-expressions/

For example:

  • People who do sports are fit.
  • The student who studies in the library will do well on the test.
  • The person who does yoga is flexible

Whom

“Whom” is a relative clause that refers to the people used as the object of a sentence.[3]https://www.slideshare.net/Ifahanwar/passive-voice-relative-clauses-causative-and-subordinating-conjungtion

For example:

  • He is the person whom I told you about.
  • From whom did you receive this present?
  • To whom did you give the cake?

Which/That

“Which” or “that” is used as the subject or object pronoun for animals or things.

For example:

  • The car that I was driving is very old.
  • The horse, which you were feeding, was very hungry.
  • The house that she lives in is very big.

Where

“Where” is used to refer to a place.

For example:

  • I found the house where I used to live when I was little.
  • The school where I went to is very small.
  • The town where she lives is very far away.

When

“When” is used to refer to time.

For example:

  • I will never forget the day when I first met you.
  • When I was young, I used to go to the beach every summer.
  • She was very short when she was young.

Whose

“Whose” is used for possession for things, animals, and people.

For example:

  • The dog whose master is not home is very sad.
  • The little girl whose birthday is today is very happy.
  • The father whose son is graduating today from university is very proud and happy.

Example Exercises

Choose the proper relative clauses to complete the sentences.

Please go to Relative Clauses to view this quiz

Future Perfect Continuous Tense

In English, the future perfect continuous tense is used to talk about actions that will continue up until a point in the future.[1]https://7esl.com/future-perfect-continuous-tense/

Conjugation

The tense uses the verbs “will”, “have”, “been”, and the present participle (+ing).

future perfect continuous

When to Use the Future Perfect Continuous Tense

Event that continues up to a specific time in the future

You can use this tense to talk about an event in the future that will continue up to a particular time or event.

For example:

  • Susie will have been working at this company for 5 years by December of this year.
  • I will have been studying English for 6 months by the end of this month.
  • We will have been living in the same apartment for 3 years by the time we finally fixed the leak in the ceiling.

Event that just finished before another action or event

You can use this tense to talk about an event in the future that has just finished before something else.

For example:

  • I will be tired when I get home this evening because I will have been working nonstop for 36 hours.
  • Susie will be energized on Monday because she will have been relaxing for the previous week on vacation.
  • He will be sad because he will have been studying all weekend and not had any time to relax.

Example Exercises

Fill in the blanks with the future perfect continuous tense of the verbs.

Please go to Future Perfect Continuous Tense to view this quiz

Future Perfect Tense

In English, the future perfect tense describes an event that is planned or expected to happen before something else that is coming.[1]https://7esl.com/future-perfect-tense/

Conjugation

This tense uses the verb “will” to indicate the future and the verb “have” to indicate the perfect tense.

future perfect tense

When to Use the Future Perfect Tense

Action that will finish before a certain time in the future

You can use this verb tense to talk about an action that will finish before a specific time in the future.

For example:

  • By 10:30 am tomorrow, I will have completed my final test.
  • By 8 pm tomorrow, she will have already departed on her vacation.
  • By 7:30 am tomorrow, we will have finish the project.

Action that will be done before a certain event in the future

You can also use this tense to talk about actions that will take place before another event in the future.

For example:

  • I will have learnt French before I move to France.
  • They will have finished the project before they leave to go home.
  • Susie will have eaten dinner before she cleans the dishes.

To express belief that something happened in the near past

You can also use this tense to talk about the near past when you are convinced something has happened.

For example:

  • They will have arrived by now. (I am sure that they have arrived by now)
  • Frank will have finished his test already. (I am sure that Frank has already finished his test)
  • Elisabeth will have cleaned the dishes by now. (I am sure that Elisabeth has cleaned the dished by now)

Example Exercises

Fill in the blanks with the future perfect conjugation of the verbs.

Please go to Future Perfect Tense to view this quiz